12 Steps to Make Exercise a Lasting Part of Your Life

“Take care of your body; it’s the only place you have to live.” -- Jim Rohn Sometimes a new thought or idea is all you need to make a lasting change. You can wake up one day and decide to make your entire life change. If you are new to exercise or you dropped it for a while and you want to get back to doing it, the best way to begin is with small steps. You don’t have to become an elite athlete overnight to make exercise a part of your lifestyle. It’s actually better if you commit to making small changes in your daily routine instead of reinventing yourself overnight, because you are more likely to stick with it. 1. Develop a "move more" mindset. Carving out a specific hour of the day for a workout is great but first, start each day with the mindset to move more. By reminding your body to get more movement each day, you will be more likely to do it. Sit less and stand more. Take more steps and stairs. Walk and talk with a coworker instead of emailing them. Stretch in your chair, squat to pick something up, park far away from stores, stand up when you talk on the phone or do some exercises while you watch TV. 2. Commit to regular activity. You may not be the type of person who wants to train for a triathlon. You don’t have to become a fitness buff to benefit from exercise and movement. Schedule exercise like any other appointment and treat it as a commitment rather than something you squeeze in if you have time. Even if you can only allot 15 minutes, schedule it. Take a short walk. Walk at a leisurely pace at first if exercise is new to you. You can build up to a power walk. If that’s not your thing, take a fitness class, swim laps or sign up for dance classes. If your body isn’t accustomed to regular exercise, build up slowly day by day so you don’t get too sore and throw in the towel altogether. 3. Find your favorite exercise. I know people who commit to a form of exercise and hate it. Out of all the forms of exercise out there, find one you love. Get really specific, discover what form of yoga is your favorite. If swimming is your thing, try swimming laps or water aerobics. Maybe you’d dread a step class but you can’t get enough of Pilates. A good way to identify what type of exercise is right for you is to first figure out if you like to exercise alone, with a partner or in a group. You may have to experiment a little before you know. Try different forms of exercise until you find one that energizes you physically and mentally. That way excuses won’t even enter the equation when it’s time to exercise. 4. Focus on health and strength and what it means to you, and not on numbers on a scale. Many people can get easily discouraged and give up when there’s too much emphasis on weight loss. Focus on the joys of exercise and movement instead. Take pride in your body getting stronger or your new ability to exercise longer, even if it’s just in baby steps. Think about the great way your body feels after exercise. Taking the time to consider what really connects you to exercise on an emotional level, is powerful because you can use those thoughts to motivate you. Most likely what motivates you runs much deeper than getting skinnier or a specific number on a scale. Maybe you want to have more energy for your children or grandchildren or you want to be in more control of your health—whatever is your core motivation—connect to it. 5. Add strength training to your weekly routine. Exercise isn’t just cardio. Strength training is important to retain muscle as you age, have a strong body and an effective metabolism. Even if you focus on one muscle group a day and do three different exercises with three sets of 15 each, you will benefit. You can divide strength training up throughout the week. Try one day a week to start and work up to three. Strength training will change how you feel, help you conquer your workouts with all that new muscle you are developing, and it’s the secret to a revved up metabolism. 6. Put yourself first. Stressful situations can take your focus away from caring for yourself. If you neglect yourself for the sake of external problems, you will be creating more problems than you are solving. Even if you only have 15 minutes, just commit to 15 minutes. It all goes back to the oxygen philosophy you hear about on planes, flight attendants advice: “Put your oxygen mask on before assisting others.” You aren’t able to effectively take care of anyone else if you don’t take care of yourself first. Keep that in mind. 7. Exercise with a group. Exercise doesn’t have to be a solo sport. Make it an outing with friends and family. When you join up with others to exercise, not only do you get the immediate benefits of exercise, you also get time spent with friends—a double benefit into your well-being. When you discover physical activities and forms of exercise you love, you develop a sense of community with others. Accountability works. 8. Think of how exercise boosts your sense of well-being. You probably know exercise can help you live longer and prevent disease, but what you might find more rewarding is to think about all the immediate benefits exercise provides to your well-being. While the long-term benefits are numerous, many of us aren’t motivated by what we can prevent decades down the road. Think short-term instead. All of us can use exercise today to get more energy, alleviate stress, increase productivity, improve our outlook, sleep better and feel happier—today! Think about what you stand to gain if you work out today or the satisfaction in knowing you pushed your body. Just give it some thought or better yet, make a list. 9. Also, look to the future. Don’t get caught up in guilt or regret because you haven’t worked out in a while. Guilt and regret only make you feel bad, they don’t get you where you are headed. With a simple decision in your mind, you can let go of what you did or didn’t do and just start again. Look forward. If you are feeling badly about yourself, you are less likely to make positive change. Start over with a clear plan of what you will commit to doing each day for your health. 10. Avoid start and stop syndrome. One great way to kill your confidence is to constantly start and stop your exercise routine. It’s common for people to get psyched up and dive into working out and then drop it altogether when the craziness of life intervenes. But if you start and stop all the time, you are setting yourself up for a never-ending cycle, where you won’t see any progress. Don’t tackle the world in a day. Think of what you can do and schedule today even if it’s small increments of time that you eventually build upon. Commit to what you can achieve, at least at first. 11. Remind yourself daily of your why. It’s easy to get off track if you aren’t reminding yourself of why working out and eating healthy is important to you. This goes back to your core motivation. If you make it automatic to wake up and remind yourself of why exercise is important to you, you will be more likely to keep your commitments to yourself. You also will be putting exercise front and center on your day instead of treating it as an afterthought that you skip at the end of the day. Wake up thinking of what exercise you will do today and it becomes a priority. 12. Stretch post workouts. An effective exercise regimen involves cardio, strength training and stretching. Stretching after exercise can help relax and balance tension caused by the workout itself. Post-workout, when your body is warm is the ideal time to stretch. The risk of muscle injury is much lower, and you will save yourself from tight, sore muscles the following day. Plus, the calm, relaxing feeling of a good stretch is a great way to end a workout. Try some of these steps to make exercise a part of your life. Remember, a great way to avoid skipping workouts is to ask yourself how you will feel afterward. You can feel proud of your dedication and gain the exhilaration of accomplishment, or you can be disappointed and defeated that you skipped, again. Sources: Mercola.com, 2/15/13

10 Things Better Than Money

A recent Gallup poll, quoted in The Atlantic, found that "well-being rises with income at all levels of income, across countries." In other words, as the article's title states, the poll proves that "Yes, Money Does Buy Happiness." Except that it doesn't prove that at all. What the study actually discovered was a "strong correlation" between each nation's real Gross Domestic Product per capita and the sense of "well-being" among that nation's citizens. Correlation isn't causation. The data could just as easily be interpreted the other way around: that happiness creates wealth. What's most likely, though, is that happiness and wealth are part of a cycle, each one creating more of the other. And that's the reason for this article. Assuming you want to create both wealth and happiness for yourself and those around you, you have two approaches: wait until you're wealthy to be happy, or become more happy now and thereby create more wealth. I maintain that, in today's economy, it's easier to start with the happiness, because unlike wealth (which takes time to accumulate); you can increase the amount of happiness in your life within minutes, simply by taking more notice of things that make you happy. With that in mind, here are ten things that can make you happy immediately, regardless of where you are in the cycle. 1. Life It's easy to forget that the mere fact of conscious existence--that you are alive--is itself a miracle. As the old saying goes "every day above ground is a good day." 2. Health Rather than thinking of illness as something bad that happens to you, start thinking of health as something good that's happening to you. 3. Purpose There is nothing more conducive to long-term happiness than knowing that your actions are making the world a better place. 4. Friendship Almost everyone has friends, although it's easy to lose track of them in the rush of events. Take a few minutes--today--to reconnect with some of them. 5. Family If you've got a good relationship with your family, rejoice! You're experiencing one of the deepest sources of happiness on the planet. 6. Self-reliance Feeling secure that you can count on yourself to accomplish what you set out to accomplish creates a quiet but potent happiness. 7. Community Having the support of a wider group makes you more aware that you're part of something greater than yourself. 8. Gratitude Rather than focusing on what you don't have or what's out of reach, be thankful for the wonderful things already in your life. 9. Laughter It is impossible to laugh and be miserable at the same time. Regular doses of laughter are more than medicine... it's the flavor of life. 10. Love 'Nuff said. Create these ten things in your life and I guarantee that you'll either become more wealthy or, if not, you won't really care anyway because you'll already have what's important. Source: Inc.com, by Geoffrey James, 1/23/13.